Suggested Reading Active Parenting Now Parent’s Guide by Michael H. Popkin (Paperback – Jun 2002) The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver (Paperback – Nov 2, 2004) Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America’s Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship by John M. Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, and Joan Declaire (Paperback – Jun 26, 2007) The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships by John Gottman (Paperback – Jun 25, 2002) Trauma and Human Existence by Robert D. Stolorow (Paperback – 2007)